Dear self,
You’ve grown to be a beautiful, smart 18 year old. I wish you can see and realize how beautiful you are. My heart aches so much for you because you lack confidence in your ability to navigate the world.
The world is not as scary as you seem to think. When you realize that, you’ll see what wonder the world holds .
Dear self, it is not weird to be an introvert. It’s ok to enjoy your own company. It’s ok to enjoy reading a book rather than go to parties, night clubs or mingle and jingle. It’s ok not to be interested in boys and when you do get interested, you don’t have to make yourself less intelligent in order to bloster anyone’s ego.
Be confident, be vocal, take risks. Ruffle feathers. The world will not end if you put your foot down. Dear child, the world will not even blink.
Be true to yourself in all that you do. Trust your instincts. That is the gift of a discerning spirit that God has given you. It will never fail you. Stand up for what you believe in. It will not always make you popular but it will be your truth.
Above all dear self, let Proverbs 3:5 be your guide.
Doyinsola
Nice one