I am a keen observer of relationships and marriage. I was a widower at 50 years, who remarried and went through a messy marriage that led to divorce, so the dynamics interest me. Its clear to me though, from experience and observation that dating and marriage is no longer what it used to be. The […]
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The Changing Dynamics of Modern Relationships We’re still talking about relationships, and trust me—this one is sparking conversations! What Started This Conversation? So, a few weeks ago, someone sent me a message. It was a conversation between two friends, and because of its context, I decided to share it with a few
Our young people and their views on marriage.* As part of my efforts to ensure I don’t get locked in my own echo chamber regarding my christian beliefs, trends in the kingdom etc. It’s so easy to lose touch with the reality of everyday lived walk of faith. Both interesting and disturbing findings, responses. Anyway,
My video on the above topic generated discussions offline, this is my response. I’ve been called out on the church “outfit” so let me say where I stand. What is right is right and wrong is wrong.Everything is NOT appropriate, matter what is in fashion. I’m not being holier than thou, I will admit I
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Okafor’s Law is a crude slang that means I can always sleep with a girl that I’ve had sex with, anytime, anywhere that I want. It’s a term coined by men. It’s got to be by men, you know. How many women do you know who’s going to say something like that? I can always
AI-generated picture. By Miz. Globe Trotter A REAL LIFE TALE. So, a central reason why I’ve chosen to spend this current stay in Nigeria mostly in Air bnbs is because it’s been a ‘working holiday’. Given our notorious infrastructure challenges, I wasn’t inclined to put the work that pays the bills in jeopardy by perching
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Dear self,You’ve grown to be a beautiful, smart 18 year old. I wish you can see and realize how beautiful you are. My heart aches so much for you because you lack confidence in your ability to navigate the world. The world is not as scary as you seem to think. When you realize that,
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I don’t have many photos of my dad. He passed on before social media and phone cameras became a thing. We (my siblings and I) do have a few here and there, mostly in family photo albums (not digital ones that exist on Google Photos and the likes). Looking at those family albums, the pictures
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Within a period of one year, twenty-five years ago, I met four men. All of them as different from each other as possible. All in different stages of their lives, the only commonality was me. They knew of the other person without knowing them and it was okay because I wasn’t dating any of them.
Four Men and Me Within a period of one year, twenty-five years ago, I met four men. All of them as different from each other as possible. All in different stages of their lives, the only commonality was me. They knew of the other person without knowing them and it was okay because I wasn’t
